Under The Banyan Tree 21
Posted on Feb 3rd, 2007
by
Harshada
Hi Everyone,
Here is an interechange I had with a an old friend via email. In it, we mention Anu - my wife - who is a humanitarian doctor. Right now she is in Peru studying tropical diseases. She is an amazing being. Anyway, I thought the question and answer would make for a provocative blog entry. Enjoy!
Q: David, Beth and I were talking about whether its better to be aware of "world pain" or not. My question to you or rather Anu is: how do you keep hope when you see hands on all of sadness and hopelessness in the world? just wondering what helps to keep positive. that converation was sparked from seeing children of men...
take care
Tina
A: Wow, deep question. I get there again and again. I just came from Mount Sinai hospital where I do meditation with kids in the children's hospital. My kids mostly have cancer or some serious blood disorder. Many don't survive. Anu and I do a lot of hands on work with suffering people and it can be intense. I think we're both hardwired in a way that allows us to be around that kind of acute suffering.
How do we keep up hope? My short answer- and simplest answer is our spiritual practice. Our practice gives us access to a lot of inner strength and detachment. It also gives us access to a very deep kind of compassion. Compassion is oft misunderstood. We have the image of the weeping buddha or whatever feeling the wieght of universal suffering.
There is an aspect of compassion like this- like an empathetic link where you connect to someone's pain or suffering or feel the "world pain". This can be really profound. The world would be a better place if more people were able to cultivate this kind of compassion.
But there is a second stage of compassion too.This is where we connect with and experience the innate goodness and inherent joy in everyone and everything. This is FAR FAR deeper and more powerful than the world pain or individual pain. But its something i had to experience and something I sometimes have to work hard to maintain. Otherwise, burnout happens. I can't tell you how many burnt out helpers I know.
I think its important for people to not shut out the suffering of others but equally important to not deny the tremendous beauty and joy in the universe too. It's not a polyanna attitude- its a mystical experience. Even in the darkest times- the msot hellish realms, there is light. ~
If you have any ideas about this, please post a comment below! Click here to learn more about our meditation lessons, humanitarian work, and inner life consulting.
Here is an interechange I had with a an old friend via email. In it, we mention Anu - my wife - who is a humanitarian doctor. Right now she is in Peru studying tropical diseases. She is an amazing being. Anyway, I thought the question and answer would make for a provocative blog entry. Enjoy!
Q: David, Beth and I were talking about whether its better to be aware of "world pain" or not. My question to you or rather Anu is: how do you keep hope when you see hands on all of sadness and hopelessness in the world? just wondering what helps to keep positive. that converation was sparked from seeing children of men...
take care
Tina
A: Wow, deep question. I get there again and again. I just came from Mount Sinai hospital where I do meditation with kids in the children's hospital. My kids mostly have cancer or some serious blood disorder. Many don't survive. Anu and I do a lot of hands on work with suffering people and it can be intense. I think we're both hardwired in a way that allows us to be around that kind of acute suffering.
How do we keep up hope? My short answer- and simplest answer is our spiritual practice. Our practice gives us access to a lot of inner strength and detachment. It also gives us access to a very deep kind of compassion. Compassion is oft misunderstood. We have the image of the weeping buddha or whatever feeling the wieght of universal suffering.
There is an aspect of compassion like this- like an empathetic link where you connect to someone's pain or suffering or feel the "world pain". This can be really profound. The world would be a better place if more people were able to cultivate this kind of compassion.
But there is a second stage of compassion too.This is where we connect with and experience the innate goodness and inherent joy in everyone and everything. This is FAR FAR deeper and more powerful than the world pain or individual pain. But its something i had to experience and something I sometimes have to work hard to maintain. Otherwise, burnout happens. I can't tell you how many burnt out helpers I know.
I think its important for people to not shut out the suffering of others but equally important to not deny the tremendous beauty and joy in the universe too. It's not a polyanna attitude- its a mystical experience. Even in the darkest times- the msot hellish realms, there is light. ~
If you have any ideas about this, please post a comment below! Click here to learn more about our meditation lessons, humanitarian work, and inner life consulting.

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